Not everything in life can turn out as you would like. There are times of winning and times of losing. However, even if you should suffer momentary loss, you must not be defeated by your own self. Those who lose the inner battle at emits wretched. No matter what might happen, no matter what you might be told, no matter how difficult your present circumstances, as long as you win th battle with yourself, you will be a victor in life.
~Daisaku Ikeda